Not every single day you feel positive, there is some days where you feel heart broken and disappointed, we all get bad days in our life and that’s completely okay!
It’s not important to be positive all the time but to coming out of that negative stage is a success, work on from there and it does takes time. Now the question pops up in our minds how to come out of that feeling. The very first thing is just look into your life deep inside, what’s bothering you? Your own happening’s in life or what happenings in others life. That’s a big question!! It can be harmful in both ways for your own peace.
If something bothering in our own life we can edit it by keeping good amount of patience. I believe we can fix each and everything about ourselves doesn’t matter how crucial condition we are having around at least we can make ourselves better. As I have read it somewhere “Failure is not a opposite of success it’s a part of success.” So never ever get scared of failure. Keep trying for the things you want to have in your life. GOD always provides the way; everything always works out. Be patient, sometimes we have to go through the worst to get the best.
And if others life happening’s bothering us then we need to modified our feelings immediately. Because we can only see a good picture in someone life, we don’t know any bad part about it. We all share and show only good not bad at all. If we want to understand another person, we must swim in the same water which drowned them, because nobody has easiest life every person has gone through from so much which we are not aware of. We know all the happy and sad part of our life but when we see only good in someone’s life, we start assuming that person have never seen bad or had any challenges but on the other end its completely different condition.
Every person has seen all kind of phases, life is not a bed of roses all the time. it’s a mixture of sweet and bitterness. This is about the two choices life gives every person, either you sit, sulk and dwell on how unfair life is to you, or you could try and figure out how to make the bad situation work in your favor. Don’t let the bad days make you feel that you have a bad life. Being positive in a negative situation is not naive it’s a leadership. Not all the people have that courage to stay positive in difficult situations as well, because being constructive in happy moments is not success anybody can do it but being optimistic in a situation where nothing going in a favor of you is an achievement.
Do not get upset with situation and people ever because everything is temporary, people’s reactions and situations both. If you keep that in your mind you will never ever get disappointed. The less you care the happier you will be. You are not going to be surprised real soon at how everything suddenly and miraculously worked in your favor if you stay positive.
You don’t have to be positive all the time. It’s completely okay to feel sad or angry, Anxious, annoyed, frustrated or scared, having those feeling doesn’t make you a negative person it makes you a human.
You may not be able to control every situation and its outcome. But you can control your attitude and how you deal with it. Train your kind to be calm in every situation. Staying negative and keeping yourself depressed and stressed is not a smart strategy, but remain positive in hard situations is a big deal because unfortunately in the end whatever needs to happen will happen, eventually you will end up where you need to be, and doing what you should be doing.
What is broken can be mended. What hurts can be healed. And no matter how it gets, the sun will rise again, so why not stay positive and make each and every single day calm and peaceful with our own positivism and create our surroundings positive as well. Be proud of yourself for how hard you are trying.